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Why are you not exclusive after 7 dates? All that means is that you aren't dating other people, usually happens on the 3rd date for me. (they asked me to be their GF-in a relationship, theirs only, etc.)
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" I asked her if she wanted to spend the night cause we both had a few drinks and she didn't want to and drove home instead. "
^as u said she's not da type of person to take things fast... so she avoided stayin da night after knowin each other for a month only.
maybe she'll request it on her own when she wants to
Most people would say "There is no answer / Every relationship is different / Do whatever makes both of you happy" but since you asked the question looking for a definite answer, I'll give you the one I live by.
I would never share a bed with a girl over night unless I was ready to marry her / have sex with her. It's not a matter of trust, its just a matter of not being stupid. If a man and woman who are heavily attracted to each other sleep in the same bed enough times, they're going to end up having sex, because that is how their bodies are designed to behave.
So, asking to share a bed is like asking to have sex, because sooner or later, when you're both really turned on, and your minds are only half awake, you're going to end up having sex.
If you're not trying to have sex, I do not recommend sleeping in the same bed. Next time, you should offer to have one of you sleep on the couch so that she can have a place to stay if driving home is not safe.
7 dates isn't exactly that many. Everyone is different, be patient.
Some sleep over on the first date some may not sleep with you til you marry her.
If you've been together for that long and no sex, move on.
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