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Also I have seen plenty of ugly people's date what society would consider attractive people
I have a lot to offer a man when my looks are gone. The question wasn't implying that people only date people because of their looks & you're correct that their are beautiful people with people that look as good as that but at the same time you hear all the time about people won't date someone due to them not being attracted to them
People that don't look as good *
Lmao I wasn't trying to hurt anyone it was just a question. But since you got so offended I think it's safe to say you're not the cutest..,
And by saying that, its safe to assume you aren't either 👍 asker
Uglyness is in the eye of the beholder. What if ugly people as you called them learned early in their life that there is more to love than physical beauty? Someone ugly would know because they feel they are beautiful inside despite people reminding them all the time they are ugly on the outside. The next normal step is to realize that there are other people like them, so they know what to look for.I thought your question was insensitive and I find my answer was equally insensitive. You weren't trying to hurt anyone. That doesn't mean it was a good idea or that it didn't hurt anyone. You look like someone who thinks highly of herself and who has a low esteem for people who are different from you. The kind of despiteful person nobody wants to be around. If I am wrong, well then know that it's the impression that you give off to people.
@bards if I was ugly why would I ask a question like that? That's like a fat person asking others what it feels like to be fat... they would already know what it feels like so no need to ask a question about it
I didn't mean for my answer to be insensitive but if you saw my answer as insensitive why would you purposely go out of your way to post an "insensitive" as you called it comment? Since when do two wrongs make a right? & well I do think pretty highly of myself... low self esteem has never been a problem of mine however I'm not despiteful. If you ask anyone that knows me in person and they would say I was the nicest person... It's funny how I ask ONE question on here and you're already diagnosing me with being despiteful and malice like you don't even know me... You can't properly judge someone off of one question especially over the internet
& as far as their being more than physical beauty I completely agree. If you don't have a good personality it's not going to work no matter how good looking you are. However I'm sure you here all the time of attractive people dating non attractive people and breaking up with them because no matter how good their personality is they're not attracted to them. So how is it that non attractive people can date each other and not have a problem with it. That's what my question was asking
Sometimes, one question is all you need. If you had asked "Why are black people so ugly". Then it wouldn't have been such a huge step to make to pen you as racist. It is very apparent from what you write that you do not lack self-esteem. I would even say you could distribute some around and you would still have too much. I can understand your curiosity. It's the way your formulate your sentences that shows how little you care about people. It's true that I could've just said nothing. That's generally what I do when I feel like the question comes from a good place. It was not the case with you. It was a loaded question and when I see that people don't really care about others, then I don't care about them and feel entitled to express my disgust as I see fit. If you are wondering why I spend the energy, I will answer you by a question. Why did you spend the energy asking a question like that when you knew (or you should) it was offending?
lol got some reason I just saw your response. Anyways & so quick to put words in my mouth why would I say all black people ugly when I'm black... You sound dumb but okay. Anyways by looking over your profile it's safe to say that you're the despiteful angry one considering the fact that you have multiple posts attacking people's beliefs that you don't agree with but hey if as a 37 year old single man you don't have anything else to do with your life then so be it. Anyways I do agree I could have worded the post differently and will be doing that when I make a new one so thanks for that suggestion if you want to carry your argument on there then do that or just go back to arguing with someone else but I'm done on here have a good day 😘😘😘
You're right though I could probably distribute some of my self esteem around because it definitely looks like you need some
"You sound dumb but okay" lol insults already?How could I have known you were black anonymous? It was only an example. You say I attack people's belief. I don't believe in them. I criticize what I find manipulative about them. I don't see why people think that since they are religions, they should be protected. I attack religion. If you are a believer and feel offended, your problem. If you look better at my profile, you'll see I also attack racists and misogynists. Hateful people in general. I never attack people who are respectful of others. But of course, by going through my profile, your mission was to find dirt on me so let's ignore all the posts where I am being a gentlemen. How courageous of yours ANONYMOUS. If I went through your profile, what would I find?"if as a 37 year old single man you don't have anything else to do with your life then so be it"Nice ad hominem attack. You attack my age, marital status and hobby all in one sentence. Are you proud?
Just before, in the same sentence, you chastize me for attacking people's beliefs and you follow with an ad hominem attack. Bravo !"You're right though I could probably distribute some of my self esteem around because it definitely looks like you need some"Oh really? Why? What made you think I needed it?Unfortunately, I will never know since you decided to give me the last words... Will you resist? Lol
i rarely even respond on this site but leave her alone. She's anonymous because it's her question that she asked if she wants to be anonymous then she can. You're the one that came on her post and said what you had to say then want to continue to attack her for what? A cookie? Trying to call her ugly (which she isn't if she's asking something like this) in your original comment and then still going at her just shows your lack of maturity. She critized you for attacking her and then you wanted to back your ground for attacking her so of course she's going to attack you that's common sense. She agreed it could have been worded differently that's all there is for her to say. You want to still be rude & nasty for what? By Saying will she resist to respond to you just makes you sound like a high school girl who thrives off of drama it really isn't that serious. Grow up. Whoever asked this question don't even respond to juicybrain he's not even worth your time
@KevinmarquelShe spits on "ugly" people anonymously, so I send her a one-liner for which I thought the meanness was equal to the question. She could've stopped there. Nah, she called me ugly. It's ok though, I can take it. I guess I could've stopped but no, I wanted to keep going. She did too apparently. If you read our thread, you'll see she is spitting much more venom than I do. If you insult me, I won't shut up. I try to stay polite and keep it about ideas and arguments, but if your answer to that is to attack me personally, then I will answer, every time. Granted, my original opinion had more bite than usual, but I still think it fits. I've been careless about my opinion as much as she has been careless about her question.Let me be clear my friend. You can't ask stupid questions like "Why don't ugly people commit suicide so pretty people like me have more fresh air and less eyesore" and expect people to give you a respectful, honest opinion ok? And you can't forsake your
@Kevinmarquel... question by saying you worded it badly. If you do, then you will probably find me in the opinion section telling that person what I think. If you want to join and discuss with me you are welcome, but I expect you to have interesting arguments and leave your paternalistic behavior at the door Mmmmkay?
She might be spitting more venom then you but you were the one who started it and you are spitting a lot of venom too. You just have it wrapped up and worded so nicely while she just straight up tells you how she feels. She made a post in general not calling anyone out and you particularly attacked her by calling her ugly and you get mad that she called you ugly back? If I remember correctly, she didn't ask why are all pretty people dead just the same way she didn't ask why are all black people ugly. You keep putting things in her mouth that she never said. As far as my "paternalistic behavior" I wasn't being paternalistic just didn't understand how a man your age could have so much time to do this. Do you have a job? Case and point closed. She said she could have worded it differently thats and that she's done and that's all she could have done at this point but you still go on to argue with someone half your age.
@Kevinmarquel"I wasn't being paternalistic" Yes you were."Do you have a job?" No I don't, thanks for reminding me. I am changing career because I am tired of startups asking everything of me then go belly up and flee with the money they owe me. I am waiting for the next session to start as I am going back to school. Not that it's any of your business. Seems like you got time yourself !"didn't ask why are all pretty people dead just the same way she didn't ask why are all black people ugly"No she didn't. It was always clear. I was using these as analogiesIf you are going to argue with me, at least make the effort of reading what I write."you get mad that she called you ugly back?""Nah, she called me ugly. It's ok though, I can take it" Clear enough to me. I would've went on and on with you but it's no use if you don't even read or try to understand what I say.That makes me think you are just trolling.
Thank you Kevin for coming to my defense however it isn't worth it just let it go
Just let him sit up and argue with himself
@Asker Yeah. It's fine, I don't really want to discuss this subject anymore. I am already over it anyway. I don't hate you or hold a grudge @Asker. I just thought the question lacked tact and I said what I had to say.Have a nice day.