My ex boyfriend broke up with me because I was to shy, and I wasn't as open as him. I even told him that I can't help but be shy, I was only shy around him because I really liked him and didn't want to mess up.
How do I get over my shyness?
Most Helpful Guy
Really your boyfriend broke up with you because you were shy, oh dear. Well i honestly think that you should not change anything about yourself for anyone. Yes it's your choice if you want to be shy or not and both are ok, if you are happy with it. In fact one of my best friends from school was a girl who is incredibly shy but she does not want to change herself for anyone. I think its awesome that you were a little shy around him. I was so shy the first few times i spoke to my wife when we dated. You certainly deserve way better than him. He broke up with you because you were shy, count your lucky stars it ended now rather than later. I think you can overcome shyness by just meeting people and talking more... don't feel afraid to just go up to people and talk to them. and don't worry, just be a little confident and you'll do just fine :)1
Most Helpful Girl
He's not worth it. Don't go around changing yourself for a stupid guy who doesn't appreciate you the way you are. You are shy; he's open. That's just the way people are: different. And just because he think you should be a certain way to the extent of breaking up with you for it, then he's not worth you changing yourself, no one is. Just embrace your shyness. Don't be too shy though. Good luck :) and never change yourself for anyone.1