Personality confidence insert other bullshit girl say they are attracted to but it all comes down to LOOKS in the long run. I mean who can be attracted to anyone who they find brutal looking? I simply don't buy it. political correcteness aside
Most Helpful Girl
Looks are usually the first thing cos that's the surface. Everyone gets attracted to pretty things instantly, but then, it's also about looking at that pretty thing closely and finding its quirkiness and whether it fits your bill.
So even if a girl may or may not admit to liking someone for their looks, there will come a time when they'll (maybe) put the looks aside, especially if they're searching for a relationship instead of a one night stand.
But for a relationship, you need to spend time and talk to each other. And depending on the space and time, or even what that area's culture allows, there may not be enough mental space to allow one to do that. In the age of instants, you want another instant remedy for romance, not work hard to make one.
And by the way, for the record, I have 3 friends who are attracted to "brutal looking" people. Cos these brutal people exude a certain charisma that attracts them.
It's always a case of... "Ah... there's something about him..."
So it's just the way we look, or how open we are to looking. Maybe the girls you stumbled across are the kind who don't bother/prefer to look twice or are scared to.1
Most Helpful Guy
They are raised hearing that it is shallow and wrong to like those things. For this same reason women are more likely to shame guys for openly admitting we like good looking girls. The women that actually admit they like good looking guys are always much less judgmental about that type of thing, and also less likely to have a poor view of men in general.
You can even tell by the majority of women on here that are admitting they care about looks that they feel the need to insert some disclaimer about personality being more important, in order distance themselves from caring about looks, and by association proving they are not as shallow as the people they were taught deserve to be looked down on. Which is why the majority of slut shaming comes from other women, and not from guys.0