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Either way really. Most of the time I'm either too absent minded, or too lazy to text someone first. So if a girl is direct with me and tells me what she wants, and I want her as well, then I'm generally pretty turned on. My current girlfriend said she liked me before I told her anything about my feelings. We just talked about each other for a while and then she told me that she really liked me. I liked that she was assertive and direct instead of beating around the bush. So yeah, I think making the first move can be a good thing if that's what you're comfortable with. If a girl is shy, that's no problem either. It's just going to take me more time to figure out if she likes me for sure and for me to access whether or not I want to date her.