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Sometimes, it's better to let people mess up, and learn from their mistakes. She'll fall harder, but she won't do it again.
While I agree that falling for someone too quickly can be problematic a lot of what I see here is you trying to push your opinions on your friend. You can tell her how you feel and if you think you are helping her you did the right thing. However, she does have the right to disagree and you need to respect her right to make her own choices.
And honestly you could point to anyone and say they are not proving their Christianity through actions as their are lots of seemingly contradicting statements and arbitrary rules in the bible. Thats why its important of everyone to think for themselves and not blindly believe what they are told or what they read even if it comes from a authoritative source.
Sexuality is perfectly normal and healthy and the idea that people should repress or feel ashamed about their sexuality can be psychologically damaging. There is nothing wrong with him stating that he was turned on. There would be nothing wrong if they had sex, so long as they were safe about it.
You have to remember the bible was written by people who have their own agendas and bias just like anyone else.
I challenge you to ask yourself if you can find a logical reason that his statement was somehow wrong and to ask yourself if an all powerful and all loving god would be so concerned with how people express their sexuality but at the same time do nothing to prevent world hunger as untold amounts of children are dying of starvation.
When i was younger, i did the same thing as you were i'd try to watch out for my friends however like you're beginning to notice... no one listens.
The only true way to understand this is through experience... one day you'll date someone you'll like and you will also get criticism or some side skeptical remarks that you too will ignore. After a year or so when the relationship does turn sour.. you'll think "what the hell was i thinking? Why didn't i listen to my friends / family?
Your friend isn't going to listen to anyone as she's emotionally connected so if you truly care for your friend, support her.. and when things go poorly... keep supporting her.
Unless it's a life threatening relationship.. it's her road / path to learn.
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