Today, I got a text from my boyfriend saying "you're coming with me to my beautiful best friends birthday" and I agreed without a fuss. His "beautiful best friend" is a girl and whilst I was on the phone to him tonight he said "this is going to sound terrible but if you weren't coming to her party with me I'd probably stay there afterwards for the night." How do I even react to this?
Most Helpful Guy
If you were in his shoes, why would you do it?
I have seen countless girls here asking how they could make their boyfriend jealous and it's always taken with humor and people exchange tricks. Now a guy does it and everybody jumps for their pitch and fork... I literally just read a story of a girl who was worried because her boyfriend didn't like that a random guy asked to slather sunscreen on her and people agreed with her; he was jealous. Make up your mind people ! He didn't even cheat yet and people want @asker to dump him.0
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Most Helpful Girl
How long have y'all been together? If it's less than 6months maybe even less than a year he might have feelings for his friend that you don't know about. OR
You said in a comment you went on vacation for a week. Maybe he's jealous over something while you were away. Like if you went to the beach, you're in a bikini and everyone can see you plus he's not there with you. Maybe you mentioned a guy talking to you or flirting with you. Something to make him upset. Does he normally call his friend beautiful? If not he's trying to make you jealous. Him stating that without you there he'd be sleeping at her house sounds like deliberately trying to make you jealous. Because how stupid and insensitive can a guy be when he's in a relationship. He's never done that before? My vote is he's trying to make you jealous for some reason.
Express you hurt over it. But don't be mad at him for making you jealous purposely because girls do that shit all the time just to know the other actually cares.1