Most Helpful Guy
I think you have look at your past, and see what bad experiences gave you this hate for men. If have had a bad experience with guys, then you should deal with it, and stop running away from it.
Whatever bad experience you have had with a guy, I don't think you have dealt with that experience properly for yourself to move on. You have being raped, assaulted by a man, then you really too go and seek professional help.
Getting help doesn't mean you are weak, it actually means you are strong, and saying to that person who hurt you, I want to do better and move on with my life without you. I don't want to give my power away to you, and live a miserable life, and not have relationships with a man or women. Don't let the bad people ruin your life. You can't control how other people treat you, but you can control how you react to them. If they are bad people or toxic people in your life, just cut them out of your life.
Most Helpful Girl
If you definitely aren't interested in other women, maybe you just aren't ready for a relationship. But don't worry about it too much, and don't feel pressured to do anything or put a 'label' on your sexuality or whatever because you're constantly changing. Focus on yourself and what makes you happy for now, and do that.