I'm unsure about whether I should trust a guy who I know has a reputation. We have been dating casually for a while now, and had sex multiple times, but he has expressed interest in having a serious relationship with me and putting his old ways (from before we began dating) behind him.
I am uncertain if people can really change that much and if I want to commit to him. Personally I would be okay with a casual situation just as much as a relationship, but am I foolish to have reservations? He is considerate, sweet and charming towards me, but doesn't get along with his mother, which I see as a warning sign. He is also attractive and he knows it.
Should I trust him or keep my distance?
Thank you for your help!
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... We have been dating casually for a while now...
It seems that even though your SO for the moment has been known to have a certain 'Reputation,' @littlepanda5, doesn't mean that you cannot teach an old dog new tricks of the trade and this Meaning... He is considerate, sweet and charming towards me.
Unless he is proving to you that he is going back to his old ways, Continue down the Healthy path you are on together and Keep nursing and nurturing something special that you have Going. I believe that he is trying to changes some old ways and with you by his side, the feelings he has is Showing me that you are the juiciest apple at the top of his tree And... None can compare.
Ignore everything and everyone until Otherwise shown something different.
Trust him. Don't let something put a wedge in between a Beginning of a new Beginning.
Good luck. xx1