My first date idea with a girl I just met is to go on a ghost tour, then to eat at chili's and maybe to a cemetery to ghost hunt, I dont want to tell her what we are doing just want it to be a surprise, but should I save the ghost hunt for another time, or bring it up while we eat, or just skip it all together.
- Skip the ghost hunt.Vote A
- Tell her about the ghost hunt, and see how she reacts.Vote B
- Go on ghost hunt at the cemetery with out telling her.Vote C
Most Helpful Girl
Not a good idea for a first date, unless this is a girl that you already know is super into that kind of stuff... like if one of the things that attracted you guys to each other was talking about stuff like that, then it's a great idea... but if it's something you're not 100% sure she would LOVE, then it's a really, really risky first date idea. It has the potential to come off as super creepy.3
Most Helpful Guy
I think having really out there and interesting dates is a good idea, but this may be a a bit too far out in left field for the first date... props though for actually finding something creative.2