I have been dating this girl for about a month now, everything seems to be going great. We had instant chemistry and have seen each other multiple times a week since meeting.
Last week she stayed at my place Thursday and Saturday night. Saturday we had gone to a concert together, and we're supposed to meet up with a few of her friends at a bar, but the line was too long when we got there, so we decided to go home.
Sunday morning she left my house really early, I offered to make her breakfast, but she said no and that she had to get going. She had to help set up for her nephew's birthday party later that day.
That at night I texted her to see how the party went. 6 hours later she responded. Monday, I texted her to ask a question, she didn't respond until Tuesday. Last night I asked how her day was, got a response a couple of hours later. I sent a second text and didn't receive a response until this morning. I asked her if she would be interested in going out to dinner this week, she said she couldn't, that she had dinner plans the next 2 nights and then was going away for the weekend (I only knew about her going away). So I said, ok, maybe sometime next week then. I still have not received a response from her. She has always been pretty quick with her responses, and would also initiate conversations with me. For some reason it all seems to be different starting that Sunday.
Does this his seem like she is slowly moving away from me? Or, am I just overthinking this?
Most Helpful Girl
I think she is avoiding you too.0
Most Helpful Guy
No, it sounds like this one is over, waiting for someone to turn out the lights. Was it your idea to not wait for her friends because the line was too long on Saturday night? That is the only clue about what may have happened. Sometimes, you never know; it just happens, it's over, and you don't get the courtesy of an explanation.0