The girl I'm dating is damaged and says she needs time to fix herself before she worries about me?
What Girls Said 1
I don't think she is cutting you out for good. I do believe that she genuinely needs some time and place to figure things out for herself. Just three months are generally not enough to digest the end of a relationship and start a new one; especially if it was a three year relationship.
Try to give her time time and space and most importantly, try not to go too crazy during this time. There really isn't much you can do right now. I'm sure she'll be in touch eventually.
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What Guys Said 1
Break ups are tough! And not always does the person we end up with after our horrible break up keep us so engaged in the new realities hip that our minds focus on what's new over the past. Not a shot at you or anything mate, apologies if it comes off so. You're actually a good lad to give her this time to be to herself to figure out "what next" or if she's healed enough from the emotional scar that break ups leave. It's tough to be in your position though if you really like her, because in this time apart it can go the other way, and she finds herself not "missing you" or thinking it's not worth picking back up. or some other guy might not be so kind as to let her have this time alone and constantly do things to grab her attention and keep it, Ya know. I think you should play it by what you know about her for one. And then there's also a such thing as emotional momentum. As cool as it is to be the gentleman here and that's what I'm all about, sometimes all becomes fair in love and war and you got to keep her thinking about you. Send some flowers or go old school with a letter. Balloons attached to chocolate. Blimp in the sky, hey you can't control that they fly those things an happen to have, " I'm waiting for your To get that feeling once again, reunited in the end" -trapt, attach to a banner.(jk) (bad one). But it's not to late mate. People delete things from they're life they find to hard and painful to think about ( usually) so id say you mean something to her. Don't give up if she's worth it :)
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