i ultimatly am not atracted to overweight girls, transgenders, or guys (i fear this will be another argumet). i mean im not judging im just not atracted... not like its the only thing i look for, i mean u could be a model but if you a mean or terrible person your ugly to me..., does this make sence to anyone?
Most Helpful Girl
There's nothing wrong with that though being picky can limit your dating pool and eventually leave you alone (if you're TOO picky). But it sounds like to me that people are trying to shame you (and she's trying to shame those guys) for something that can not be changed: attraction.
You can't force yourself to be attracted to someone that completely turns you off.
Most Helpful Guy
its your preference, its fine. just don't put others down because you're not particularly attracted to them, that's all.