I'm really ugly and this creates a lot of anxiety because none of the girls I like ever like me back only the overweight and "aheam" not pretty girls like me. I don't typically go for extremely gorgeous girls either just every day cute girls no models or anything. Problem is that when I actually like a girl she rejects me and these girls I don't like are always hitting on me.
I never treat these other girls badly but I'm not attracted to them even one bit but as soon as I actually like a girl they always hate me or tell me I'm really ugly. should I just stop trying? I don't want to settle for a girl I don't like because that's hardly fair for her. Imagine being with a man that doesn't like you at all, that's not to fun isn't it?
and LIKE I SAID I NEVER GO FOR EXTREMELY HOT WOMEN (before people start telling me I got impossible standarts or something)
Most Helpful Girl
Be confident nothing is sexier than a man who is confident with himself that is what will make you attractive looks aren't everything to some women u like a hot girl tell her in a creative way. Looks fade overtime so there has to be more to the table then just looks. Your body language attracts the women u dont like maybe ur the type who appears shy and introverted always have your head down or you dont give great eye contact small things like that attrats certain People love yourself first get validation for yourself n then u will see u will attract the right girls0
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Most Helpful Guy
Tbh i know where you are coming from. I've had girls who I may not have as much interest like me but you know I'm at least friendly with them. Best thing to do man is focus on yourself. Acquire currency. If you can't find a girl I suggest going to a place where there's a high volume of women and approaching see If there's anything you can improve by approaching them.
If you dont want to try at least you have your parents as a last option. If anything parents would want to see their kids happy so since you're at the right age they'll understand so see If they know anyone around your age that you can date and see where it goes from there.0
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