Most Helpful Guy
He should treat you respectfully. When a first date is in the middle of the day, there is less expectation that there will be any kissing or affection. If there is an uncomfortable lull in the conversation, ask him a question bout himself, his family, his interests. Don' try to act like someone else. Be yourself and realize that the guy who have a lunch date with when you're 17 is probably not the one who is The One for you. This is for fun and for practice. The more you do this, the more comfortable it will become.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm shy too and used to have anxiety and panic attacks, but that was because of my dad. Now, that he's gone I've been a lot more calm. I just started dating since turning 16. When I go on dates I talk a lot to the point they start laughing and ask if they can talk. I usually ask about there family, what they like to, movies, and just anything that pops into my head. You should ask him about himself so he'll know that you're really interested in him. I don't chew gum or eat mints during a date because I think they leave after tastes. I chew on mint leaves.