- contact her
- ignore her
Guys, if a girl who turned you down, suddenly send you a message "I miss you, now the ball is at your court", what would you do?
What Guys Said 19
So first she turns me down, then after the guy she chose over me breaks up with her she comes back to me as the "backup plan" and uses a condescending phrase like "the ball is in you court"
I'd either ignore it or respond back
"keep the ball, I forfeit"
Why would the ball be in my court? If anything the ball is still in her court. "I miss you". What the hell is that? What am I supposed to do with that? And then telling me the ball is in my court. I'd think this girl is out of her fucking mind, especially after she turned me down. Does she think that saying three words will get me running back to her? She has to make more of an effort. Otherwise she isn't worth the toilet water I shit in.
I'd think she's an attention whore that likes to play games... She got cut off from her attention addiction after she rejected the dude and is now acting like a crack fiend...
I'd Ignore her for eternity
"Hahahahahahahaha make like a tree and fuck off."
That's what my reply would be.
Gonna be honest here my response would be along the lines of " Are you taking the piss? I'm NEVER going to be second best !! " You have put your worst foot forward here. Look on the bright side , a woman can easily get another man if she so chooses.
I think you should have told him when he asked you out that you were interested but not ready yet. If you texted him that the ball is in his court he would probably either think that you were interested or that you were annoyingly indecisive.
Why set yourself up for another rejection? After the rejection
I'd say "Fuck you very much ! " And walk out and never talk to
her again.. Make that bitch beg for your ass, fuck her, use her, dump her.
Any guy with a hint of self esteem would tell you to piss off. I personally would try get with your friends and let you know about it.
I would contact her and tell her we need to make this work out cause
i can't keep going on her roller coaster ride that she keeps leading me on
it depends on wether or not I was in a relationship or if I had truly moved past her or was still interested
This is what happens when you treat love and dating like a game...
I'd probably be like "Who's this?" since I likely would've moved on and been trying my luck with hundreds of other women.
i would contact the girl bad just to make her feel like shit.
i would contact her but she will need to prove that she miss me or want me
Here, keep the ball.
i would sau fuck off
Screw that. I wasn't good enough for her before, why the difference now? Because she needs someone to be her emotional tampon while she searches for a guy she actually likes?
Bullshit, not dealing with her. Ignore 100% of the time.
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