I don't want to sleep with him the first time we hang out. I've done it before and then they stop talking to me. I told him that And he says he wouldn't do that.
This guy who use to work with me told me if I do anything sexual with a guy before we start dating then it'll never turn into that.
How can I let him down easy, so that he doesn't think I don't want to sleep with him ever just not right now.