Most Helpful Guy
You have to understand what kind of dude he is. Is he a player type? Is he a quiet, introspective type? Is he low-key? This matters because maybe he was genuinely tired that day; not all guys are girl-crazy and set everything aside just for them. Especially at your age, guys start getting older and more practical about things. I know I'm not as accommodating as I used to be when I was younger. If I'm tired then I'll just stay home, that simple. Also, just because he didn't suggest something else the next day doesn't mean he's not into you. Maybe he had something to do the next day. Sounds like he could just be playing it by ear.
Guys are usually pretty easy to figure out if you know what you're dealing with. Like I said, if he's a chill, quiet, serious type of guy then you can trust that he probably still likes you but is just taking things slow. Remember that he's older, and so are you. Maybe he's looking at you as marriage material. If he's the player type then yes, he's probably stringing you along. But this is your call to make. You have to look for the signs; is he tall, hot, are all the chicks wanting him? There you go. Don't lie to yourself about you being different. Players don't care about that.
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Most Helpful Girl
He actually sounds interested in you.