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Well he seemed like a jerk at first, but when I continued readin I completely understand what he's getting at. I'm going to break it to you, people that say that looks don't matter with love are lying to themselves. Just because it seems "shallow" and that you ignore it doesn't mean that looks don't matter. He's actually doing you a favor by maning up and telling you what's wrong. Unless you can get him attracted again your relationship WILL fail. This DOES NOT mean that you should obsess over everything and be clingy (in case you're that type of person) because nothing makes a guy run faster than being clingy or obsessive.