I recently reconnected with a guy I was starting to date over a year ago. We only managed a few dates as he was studying for his masters at the time so we never took it any further.
We have since met up for a date and realise the attraction is still there for both of us.. But... He has made it clear that he is attracted to me and wants to intimate, but also states that he is looking for "good times, not long times ".
He messages me everyday to check in how I am and obviously we talk about Sex and also things going on in our lives /during the day etc. which confuses me as he obviously wants me on his mind a lot.
I feel like he checks in with me and appears to generally care about me as a person equally as much as talking about having Sex with me but I'm am agonising over whether to do it given his outlook.
I admire his honesty up front but it puts me off that he may not be open to the idea of wanting more that getting it on in he bedroom.
Women are always bombarded with the reality that guys don't want to think about relationships before going into Sex as it scares them off but I like him and confused what to do. I'm undecided whether I want to have a relationship with him specifically but I don't like the idea of him closing off the thought of the idea before anything has happened!
Any thoughts/comments welcome?
- Just sleep with him and hope it goes somewhereVote A
- Face reality, he just wants Sex nothing more and move on?Vote B
If he disappears then so be it, that way I'll know if he was just using me for sex