I am 30 years old and I have been in a relationship for 3 months. This guy is a nice guy but things he does seems to annoy me. I don't know why. I am not sure if it is because I am just incapable of loving another person or he is the problem.
Let me give you some background information on myself. I have never been in a serious relationship, never been in love, and never had a BFF. I am kind of a loner. I mean i would like to have someone close to share my ideas and dreams with but it just has never happened. I can come off as a bit standoffish. I am very quiet. I do want to be married and have kids but I am wondering why I am having so much trouble finding the one. Am I even capable of being in a relationship with another person. Am I crazy? Do i need to check myself into a psych clinic? lol
Here is some background data on him: He is 39, and wants the same things as me. Marriage, kids , etc. He is very nice and a gentleman. However, he does seem to have a very low sex drive, and be very boring. He is currently unemployed only working on a side martial arts business. However, he only teaches classes 4.5 hours out of week. Most of the other time... I am not totally sure what he does. He used to be a clinical psychiatric counselor but he was fired 3 years ago. He hasn't really been looking for work which kind of bothers me.
Okay so again we have been dating for 3 months. I get annoyed at the following things he does:
1. He is very messy. I mean disgusting. I refuse to shower in the master bathroom because the tub is filled with dirt, stains, and body hair. His kitchen has knats and all kinds of creatures living in it because he hasn't cleaned or did the dishes in years. I mean it is nasty. It is a beautiful home but very unkept. I have repeatedly hinted n
Most Helpful Guy
Well if seen girls in your situation
From what I know, the ones that haven't really love and there older like yourself, they almost always have a bitter side to them. And sometimes there not as sweet as a women who once did love... but that's generalizing and may not be true with you. Just has been my experience... but in contrast when they do find someone they like, they tend to like them A LOT
About him, well I think his lifestyle doesn't suit yours and you need to decide if it's something your ok with or not.
I think overall your simply with a guy that you don't really want to be with. But since your 30 you may feel time is against you so your giving it a shot.0
Most Helpful Girl
Skip him. Not worth it.1