Just like, go for girls below my league? Like, since girls always overstimate their looks anyway and go for 10/10 guys all the time, and guys will generally screw anything that isn't fat, I'm already at a major disadvantage. Not to mention I'm black, a relatively unpopular demographic in the dating pool. Should I just scrape the bottom of the barrel, have no standards at all, go for anyone regardless of whether or not I like them, and presumably end my life because I hate my life, and everyone hates me, and I hate myself?
Most Helpful Girl
Go for the girl you can connect with (in real life, not through internet or something). It's hard to do so though because it sounds like you have no respect at all for girls and you're probably socially awkward. You should find some help because your self-esteem is abnormally low and the valuety of appearance and love is so extremely high in your life. Like, would you like a girl who only likes you for your appearance and not like you at all for your personality? That's how you make those girls feel. As a piece of meat. And that's why they don't text you back. So get help dude and maybe not think about dating and stuff for a while and focus on school, hobbies etc. Life is too fun to be worrying all the time about little things0
Most Helpful Guy
Girls dont "go for 10/10 guys", at least in my experience. I am very attractive, and I all through high school I had a lot of girls tell me how good looking I was, I have been rated as high as 9(although most girls place me at more of an 8 or 8.5), but either way despite being fairly good looking my looks dont get me crap. I am really shy and quiet, thats just how my personality is, so even though I am really good looking girls care more about personality then anything so I dont do well with them. In my life I can think of 3 times girls actively "went for me" as you put it, and they were all really trashy girls who just wanted to have sex (which I wasn't crazy about doing, especially with them). The rest either ignore me, sit in the corner and hope that I pursue them but never actually do anything about it, or come up and talk to me and get turned off by my personality. You can go for whatever freaking type of girl you want, looks dont mean anything if you are a guy, it helps girls be more interested in you, but if you can make a woman laugh then you are already way ahead of me, even if I am better looking then you. Thats just how it works, you dont need to date down because of your looks, because women will date anyone who can make them laugh and anyone who has that "right personality", which is a completely different story.0