Most Helpful Guy
some people are against it but Im all for it after a while of dating, it's as far as its ever gone in a relationship for me but it was good when it was good but when you live together, you have to confront each other when things are bad.
Most Helpful Girl
It really depends on the specific relationship. I know a few people who've moved in together and it ended up causing a lot of problems leading to an eventual breakup, but there are also a lot of times where it works out and allows you guys to become closer than ever before. Every relationship is different, so I can't really tell you if it's going to be okay or not because I'm not you.
Personally, I had a great experience moving in with my boyfriend. We moved in really early compared to other couples (we'd only been dating like three months), but that was mostly because we knew each other our whole lives and it didn't seem weird. He was only helping me out with rent because my roommate left without much notice, but it stuck. When we started dating it didn't feel like we'd just started dating because of how long we knew each other, but for us everything worked out pretty well. I learned a lot about him and he learned a lot about me. We learned that we were equally lazy when it came to cleaning, but we always got around to doing it eventually before the apartment got too gross. I learned that his family was very gendered when it comes to maintaining a home, so he knew everything about fixing a lawnmower, taking out the trash, shingling a roof, building a shed, and chopping wood (none of which comes in handy when you move into an apartment in a city), so he'd never learned how to do laundry, disinfect a bathroom, do dishes, cook, or even how to sweep properly. Lmao it's a big step and it might try your patience every once in a while, but it's not so bad and it's not as scary as it seems. It's pretty fun actually, like having a sleepover with your best friend every night. It'll take some getting used to, but it's nothing to worry about. Hope you two are happy with the decision. :)