So im going on a date this week with an Indian guy. His parents are really strict and don't like girls or dating, especially if they are a white girl. He seems really sweet and if we hit it off I would love to date but I'm worried about his parents. I don't want him lying to them, but I don't want them to hate me just because I'm white either.
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dont worry too much just see how it goes, its a huge plus in lots of cultures for a white girl to be into you by the way :)
even parents can be a little "omg wow" about that but i think society is slowly starting to realise its not about brown and white anymore
the traditional views are tough to handle, maybe he's a bit more modern and they are not
you dont have to let them dictate your life either but you can try to be respectful, i think thats the most you can do. as long as ytou are not intending to do anything bad, no one has the right to judge even a little
feel free to keep in touch i have a lot of experience with this exact scenario0