Most Helpful Guy
It should be 50/50 but it never really is, I find that initially I text first. But after a while and after hanging out and spending more tie I find girls text me first. It feels like a game when you always have to text first, like the other person is uninterested and making you initiate all the convos, it can kinda be annoying and causes me at least to drift away. Why dont you text first? are you shy or is it cause you dont wanna seem desperate etc?
Most Helpful Girl
For me guys usually text first. But occasionally it's a good idea to text them first rather then waiting for him.