So I'm not sure if the people I'm interested in is way out of my league or I just haven't met the right one yet.
Look wise, you can see on my profile picture, I'm Asian, 5'2 feet, although I don't have smoking hot Victoria secret model body, but I think I'm pretty much in shape since I work out regularly.
I'm well educated and graduated with honor, have my career started at legal department in big company.
I did not come from super wealth family or something, but we are doing well.
Personally, I think i'm friendly, and I don't have problems with people, it just i'm little awkward in new situations.
So what is in my league?
I don't expect much from guy, he just need to have better or at least same job or education levels as me, but look wise I don't expect much.
Are my standards too high? Am I expecting guy out of my league?
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From your profile and what you're saying.. are you good at flirting / signals?
"it just i'm little awkward in new situations"
- the best way to meet people is through mutual friends however being shy at times also gives off a "cold" vibe.
"Are my standards too high? Am I expecting guy out of my league? "
- you have an "idea" of what sort of standard for the man will work best for you, i wouldn't sell yourself short of whatever it is you "think" would make a good mate.
- i know as singles hate to hear this but you will meet the "right one." Every relationship I've been in started off seemingly effortless. My rule is that if you're frustrated or there's uncertainty, move on. I've never chased these type of situations and come out with a positive story other than "well that foolish."
*note* i do want to note this, younger girls 21-24 are incredibly picky and finicky. As i talk to them know, their list of "wants" aren't realistic. The checklist which gives Santa's list of inquires a run for it's money is about as ridiculous younger guy's few barriers to entry for them.
- but this isn't something you can adjust or think about.. you have to just experience it and live/learn.
just keep swimming.