1. She's gone over to his house at 9pm to do homework (using the computer in his bedroom).
2. She's asked him, "How come you don't ever take me out to dinner before?" The two go have dinner.
3. He'll text her asking her how come they haven't had dinner in awhile? The two go have dinner.
4. She's invited him to go to a concert in a different state and share a hotel room.
5. When the three of us are together, they play fight, interlock fingers and hug quite intimately.
6. She's asked just him, not any of her friends, to see concerts or her drum rehearsals.
7. She's done photoshoots posing in front of cars in a skimpy outfit and texts it to him or he'll ask for a picture.
8. He's told her that one day he wants to take her to Hawaii to check out the beaches.
9. He's told her "love you."
10. She's called him around midnight just to talk.
I confronted him about all of this, and he said there is nothing between them. That he views her as part of his family. He said I'm being stupid and jealous. One day he tells me he views her as a niece/daughter, the next time he says a friend. What can I do? Am I wrong in feeling this way? How can I get him to see what I see and what the rest of my friends see?
Most Helpful Guy
That is very inappropriate!! What's the point in having a girlfriend when he is doing all things with other women?
That's is fucked up... if I had a girlfriend like that I would ask her to stop or dump her if she doesn't stop!
His behavior is crossing the line and I don't think he loves you!
He is enjoying his options and you are stuck with him...
Find yourself a new bf!
Most Helpful Girl
When you said he ASKING for pics of her, that's when I knew, "uh-uh". Your boyfriend doesn't love u. He and that chick have an unbreakable history. Ok. He crossed the line big time. Chica, dump that jerk and be with someone else who'll actually love and respect u. You deserve better and you know it.