I asked if that's because he is planning his exit and I'm just casual? he said I analyse it too much and said he never had to explain himself that much (not complaining tone) he goes he just not ready to hang out with friends. I yelled at him and say it should be your honor that im inviting you to do stuff instead of hiding you in the dark.
he said it's not personal and he is just not ready. I said ok ttyl and hung up, then call back said i know you are mad at me and we talked more.
He has introduced me to his sports team mate and even kiss me in front of them. I also met his best friend / roomate and he let me leave stuff at his place, But what's the big deal of going out with my friends or his friends?