I want to be nice. Everyone tells me I come across as a butthole. My ex all of her friends said I come across as arrogant and full of myself. My own family told me I rub people off the wrong way. I can be a dick sometimes and be selfish I make eveRuth in about me. I want to be a nice guy. What are some tips.
Most Helpful Girl
be more considerate of people and their feelings. I think you need to spend a day and think about everything that is said or done around you. think about how that would make you feel?
We were out shopping a few weeks ago and there was an elderley chap walking past us outside the supermarket and he dropped his eggs. We had some so I handed mine over and said I didn't need a full dozen anyway. Why did I do it? Because I thought 'maybe he was looking forward to his boiled eggs for dinner' 'what if it was my dad in 10 years?' 'How would I feel?' its amazing how realising every person you meet has feelings too just like you can make you nicer x0
Most Helpful Guy
It's a matter of how you get satisfaction, from your own gratification or from making other people happy. I don't know how you can change that short of an epiphany. You could certainly pretend to be nice but if you don't really feel it your true self will always come out in the end.0