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The rule usually is the guy pays for the first one, then it tends to alternate with subsequent dates. I always ask her if I can pay. We've been on 6 dates, and I've paid for 5 of them, with one of them she paid because she insisted, but the guy should always offer and be ready to flip. A good idea, if you have the means, is to decline his offer to pay every other date or so, or insist on splitting it, take care of the tip, etc.