Most Helpful Guy
Avoid almost presuppose and eventually , Love is one of those things we decide and want and thinking that if you see yourself falling in love and are now trying to avoid it , I'd say why? Good luck stopping it ,
Love is never what hurts , its the yearning or the separation from the ones we love , voluntary or involuntarily. Let us say you are 40 , unless you know he has issues that eventually will come between you and cause harm,.
I would never tell someone not to fall in love if its looking mutual and both are honest about their feeling. BUT I've seen a few too many girls fall in love with people who have an addiction of somekind, the girls hate it , but they are willing to go along anyway.
I hope its not your case.
What kind of guy is he?
Most Helpful Girl
It may not be possible to stop yourself from falling, but I do believe one can control the dissent. Make sure you keep part of your old life intact. Do the things you used to regularly before your got a boyfriend. Spend time with your friends without your boyfriend around. Most people find themselves dropping their lives completely when a new relationship appears. That's a good way to lose yourself and forget who you really are. Maintain your independence outside of the relationship.