We really hit it off and I asked her out but before I knew who she was.
And we've been dating in secret.
If I date her is that wrong? Am I betraying my brother?
Most Helpful Girl
There's nothing wrong with it. But, you have to think about the fact that if it ends badly how's that going to be for family things in the future. If you like her start off slowly as friends. Then see if there's something there. Just remember as long as ur bro is married to her sis a bad break up would b awkward.
Most Helpful Guy
It might come off as a little strange to him and the rest of the family, but honestly they have no right to be angry since it's completely legal. More to the point, think of how many times twin guys marry the same twin girls and everyone is so excited over the news. If you love someone and they aren't blood related to you, then I say go for it. There is no shame in loving someone, you aren't dating yours or her family, you're dating her. The real question is how you're going to address it to your families gently.