Im the type of person to give 10 chances to someone before i find out im a complete fucking idiot. But my ex cheated on me multiple times. We got back together a lot. she's my first love, and i was her rebound. Her and her ex get back together often, but they always break up. Then she goes to me. she's cheated on him too multiple times. With me!
Problem is, i have the state of mind where i feel all girls are the same, and i feel like trying to keep one and trying to change her is the best option. I just dont see a girl staying true to me ever. I'm afraid of getting married and having kids because of my ex doing what she did.
Most Helpful Girl
I can see where you're coming from but I assure you, if you let that experience with that girl define the rest of your life, you will be so, so, so sorry. Not all girls are that way, believe it or not. Life is all about uncertainty, you never know who you're going to meet and how it's going to turn out. But I can give you one certainty: this girl you're with, you gotta cut her loose right now. She won't change, like you hope she will. Do yourself a favor and move on. You have no idea what you're missing out on, my friend...0
Most Helpful Guy
Dude, you taking her back all the time is just reassuring her that she can cheat on you whenever she wants cause you're gonna take her back. Stop forgiving her, she's scum, she doesn't deserve you or any guy if she keeps acting like that.
You need to grow a backbone man, not just for when dealing with women, but in real life too, or you're gonna get stepped on all the time.1