I am super attracted to a family friend of mine, who I've known for 20 years. I don't know if he likes me, we would see each other once every 3 months at events. I often catch him looking at me- but he is always surrounded by the hottest girls you can think of, and although I have a very attractive face I am a little out of shape at 160 pounds. Should I ask him if he wants to grab coffee? or will he ask me if he wants to?
- Ask him for a coffeeVote A
- Forget about himVote B
Most Helpful Guy
He may be surrounded by the "hottest" girls, but that doesn't mean he's with them. You don't lose anything by asking, you lose more if you don't.1
Most Helpful Girl
He doesn't like them if they are plural (girls). If he did he would hang around 1. So go ahead ask for "coffee".0