Childhood friend- does he like me or the HOT girls he's around?

I am super attracted to a family friend of mine, who I've known for 20 years. I don't know if he likes me, we would see each other once every 3 months at events. I often catch him looking at me- but he is always surrounded by the hottest girls you can think of, and although I have a very attractive face I am a little out of shape at 160 pounds. Should I ask him if he wants to grab coffee? or will he ask me if he wants to?
  • Ask him for a coffee
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  • Forget about him
    Vote B
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Most Helpful Guy

  • I think I've commented on this earlier, but go for it. Since you have already known him for a long time, asking him out for coffee is virtually risk free. He may not find the other girls his type, although you see them as pretty. Go for it!


Most Helpful Girl

  • He doesn't like them if they are plural (girls). If he did he would hang around 1. So go ahead ask for "coffee".


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What Guys Said 2

  • He may be surrounded by the "hottest" girls, but that doesn't mean he's with them. You don't lose anything by asking, you lose more if you don't.

  • life is short take the risk ;D


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