He only ever wears athletic shorts and basketball t-shirts that he's given for free from tournaments he's played in. Pair those with white socks and Jordan's and he has his everyday outfit. I haven't said anything to him because some guys just feel more comfortable in that attire, I get it. But, when we go out to eat with my parents I would like him to put a little more effort into what he wears. He is very wealthy so money is not the problem. His dad and brother dress very well. Should I take him shopping? I don't want to act like a mother, but it's really gotten out of hand. We went to a dinner at our country club with my family and he wore a flaming basketball t-shirt and red athletic shorts with Jordans. All I'm asking for is like khaki pants and a nice shirt from American eagle! Please help
Guys, how can I get my boyfriend to care about his appearance?
What Guys Said 4
You can't make a grown man do anything; You knew what he was like when you started dating him.
You only want him to care because you care, and that's where this entire process fails. If you wanted him to boost his appearance because he was disheveled and it worried you that would be a righteous cause, but as it looks right now you're just embarrassed because he makes you look bad.
My advice is leave him alone and deal with it. Does he even enjoy going to 'country clubs' and other places of vanity?0
Yeah, ask him to go shopping and pick out something you'd like to see him in!0
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