He never calls me, but expects me to call him?
What Guys Said 1
I read the headline and ignored the long "short story" ... so here's my opinion...
If you want a guy to always be calling you then you have to set up the relationship that way. You have to be explain to him from the start that you're not going to call him, and that he's going to have to always call you.
Or, if you want something in the middle, where you each call each other equally, then you simply make that a rule when you start dating.
We teach others how to treat us.
But that doesn't mean he won't constantly test your boundaries. And it's likely what he's doing now. If he WANTED to call you more then he would. Trust me. So if he's not calling you more that's because he doesn't want to.
If you WANT him to call you more then you have to do two things... you have to make it clear to him that you want him to CALL you. And number two... and this is where you're failing... you have to NOT CALL HIM.
The reason he's wining this struggle with you is because you're more willing to give in than he is, because you're not willing to lose him, but he's willing to lose you.
It's that simple.
Sometime you have to know what it costs to get what you want.
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