Guys, what should I do? Is this okay?
What Guys Said 2
It sounds pretty legit to me. He's conflicted based on bad experience. If you are patient, he'll hopefully come around but I'd suggest you establish a deadline in your mind and if he is still on the fence, let him know it's time to sing or get away from the piano.
I'm a dude who likes commitment when I'm dating someone I really like. Saying "Oh, I don't want to rush things" is a bullshit way of saying, "You're hot and I like sleeping with you but I also want options."
So that's your answer. If he wanted commitment he would say so.
The question is... are you okay waiting around for some guy who doesn't know what he wants in this life? Obviously you are.
Just be aware... that it's okay to be fully attractive to someone and push them away if they're aren't willing to meet your needs. It's okay to be completely in love with someone and still be willing to walk away if they're are harmful to you longterm.
You need to decide what you deserve, because we all get what we decide we deserve.
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