Dont just say things like with "confidence or whatever" HOW not with what?
If you are gonna say "confidence" tell me an example on how to use whatever the hell that is in a situation
Most Helpful Girl
Okay so I use to think that guys that were unattractive physically or at least in the face were impossible to fall for but it's not true, you just need to work on yourself. Meaning make sure you have a great personality, because if you are ugly a personality will make you so attractive. Be funny, kind, respect, polite. Have something going for yourself you need a great job and career and take cat of your vehicle.
You need to have good hygiene, keep your face clean and have nice facial hair.. no mustache because girls love beards , find the best haircut you can. Also start working out , you don't need a 6pack but you should look fit. Dress nice, it doesn't have to be name brand... just look presentable. Also don't second guess yourself0
Most Helpful Guy
I'll preface by saying I that isn't my actually age, and if some wiz knows how to change it, I'd be grateful..
Ok, so I'd say you aren't ugly. It pains me to say it as a straight guy, but you've got that shitty hipster, pierced vibe many women like :p Joke by the way... (sort of)
As for all the 'confidence' crap I agree, it's annoying when you don't have it. My advice- stop caring. I know you can't force it, but try. Try and be a bit more kickass :p It works. It's actually one of the best things about reaching rock bottom, if you ever get there. You actually, truly stop caring about what people think for the first time. It's so liberating.
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