I feel like if I talked about marriage after only two months of dating he wouldn't feel reassured ;)I'm not good with verbal affirmation, is the problem. But I know he needs it... I tend to show affection with my actions in subtle ways
My ex was weird- I rarely get angry, but the one time he did something that really hurt my feelings I started crying and he freaked out, burst into tears and couldn't stop apologizing. That was just him being manipulative though... he didn't actually do anything to change the behavior. He were dating for 3 years and he always talked about how I was too good for him and how I could do better and whatnot... honestly it started to irritate me after a while because I was the only one putting effort into the relationship in the first place.
Right.. or the "I'll cheat on you before you cheat on me" thing. I have abandonment issues myself, but I'm the opposite of that. And I don't really get that vibe from him
Exactly.. cheat just in case she does. What do you think it is then? Parental/ex girlfriend issues?
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