I'm great with kids and all that "husband" type material so I though some girl would be thrilled to be with me but I gues I was wrong
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It's possible there isn't anything wrong with you, in the sense of you as a person. Your personal judgment in who you are dating, the types of girls you're trying to date, and possibly your method in dating is flawed. Not entirely uncommon, I think everyone suffers from that at some point in their dating career. You're trying to find a girl with the same wants and desires as you. If the girls just wants to play around and have fun, maybe not the greatest sign of a lasting relationship, as you clearly want. That doesn't mean on the first date talk about spending forever together. Girls get spooked easily, so even though everyone knows why we're dating doesn't mean we can still talk about it. If you are dating girls between the ages of 18 to 23, most of these girls aren't really looking for a lasting relationship because those relationships usually lead to marriage, which most girls aren't ready for at that age. There are lots of pieces I can give you, but from what you've said, the most important thing is to not have sex with them. I tell this to girls who want to have a relationship with guys who just want to have sex. The same is going for you right now, in that if the girl is only looking to rebound or have sex, don't be that guy. I would go at least two months of dating a girl before having sex with them, mostly to avoid sex and tell them that's what you're doing until you are in a committed relationship. That will help avoid rebound girls without sounding too desperate or relationship crazy to them. You should look at the type of girls you're interested in, and see if you can't adjust your preferences in who you're going after.