He use to say we were friends with benefits. we never have sex. he came over to sleep the other night just sleep... and last night he got on top of me i wasn't in the mood and he said are u gonna get attached to me? He knows i really really like him sooooo... obvious answer... then he attempts sex.. im not into it he penetrates says its perfect then about 6 strokes in he stops and says he can't do this... rolls over and spends the night after kissing and cuddling... i find it weird becuz he do3snt mention where we stand and i hate not knowing... we havnt had real sex in 2 months
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Guys do a lot of weird stuff with friends with benefits - including kissing and cuddling. I had one once when I was younger who took me home to hang out with his family. It's confusing as heck.
The only thing you can do is bring up that you have feelings and want a real relationship. You've gotten to the point that you're constantly searching for hope and clues that he likes you... all that does is drive a person crazy! You've just got to bite the bullet and have the talk.