t's awkward because we've been friends for so long, and if we dont talk about that night, Im just going to blame it on the alcohol. do I wait for him to bring it up, or if I do, how do I address it?
Most Helpful Guy
I've been in almost this exact situation. End of finals party, girl I'd known for several months and had been increasingly flirty with, toward the end of the night we end up making out on the dance floor so intensely that we cleared out our portion of the room.
And then we made plans to go out when we both got back from break and it was super awkward. Alcohol lubes up the situation, obviously, but when your first romantic interaction with someone is an intense makeout session, it's hard to know what the next step is. It seems presumptuous to go in tongue-first, but do you go for a more reserved kiss? That seems almost... insulting. This is just speculation, but the fact that you work together also makes it more complicated because if you weren't that into it and it was just the alcohol talking, any move he makes could jeopardize the workplace environment.
My advice: give him an opening. The next time you hang out and are being flirtatious, just make some sort of passing remark that is also very clear. Something like, "You know I've spent the last week wondering if you're as good of a kisser when you're sober." That gives him an obvious opening, but if he isn't really into the idea, then it also gives him the opportunity to sort of laugh it off.
Most Helpful Girl
thank you haha! and you should wait for him to bring it up.