We haven't kissed yet (4 months after we first met) Now he says that he doesn't wanna cuddle, at least not at the moment because he's not ready for a girlfriend and therefore he doesn't wanna kiss me and hang out like that because that could lead to a relationship, which he isn't ready for. So we agreed to be friends right now. And whenever we hang out he's like "as friends, of course" and I'm like "I know".
He still acts the way a boy acts when he has a crush on a girl though. Teasing (a lot!) etc. So I think he likes me still?
But yeah, as I mentioned, I would really like to spend more time with him and possible have him as my boyfriend. But I can't tell him that nor push him into it. Is there any guy here that has been in the same position as this guy, and what made you want to commit? Or do you just have any suggestions? I really want help :) Many people who know both of us have told me that we'd be cute together and they can tell that we are close and stuff.. And I don't know.. We are quite similar, yet not. It just feels very right when I'm with him. We haven't hung out outside of school yet, but we've been alone a few times at school.
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There is no way to make him commit. It is something he would have to do on his own. Any pressure will have the opposite effect of what you want. You are right to insist on holding off on sex outside a relationship. This almost sounds like the way a guy would act if he's trying to get in your pants. I was in the same position as this guy. This is how I acted when I wanted sex, but not 'her' as a girlfriend. Kissing and cuddling is fine, but hold off on the sex until he wants a relationship without you asking. Good luck!