So my x broke up with me and she said she had to find herself. well I said ok. now she says she wants to be friends. should i? I do care for her but its hard just being a friend. Also I know that she has been hanging out with her other x. It bothers me and I held back and haven't said anything. should i? should I just tell her to take a hike and deal with it?
She will text me and she knows I'm sick and she offered to make me soup.
I'm just at a total loss and don't know what to do. I care about her but I don't want to push her and when I talk to her its like I get happy then I don't hear from hear I get depressed and then I hear about her hanging out with x's. I'm I nuts?
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First of all, she does care about you. But at the same time she is asking to have her cake and eat it too. I would give her an ultimatum, because staying friends and watching the woman you love move on while you still love her, is very unhealthy for you. Tell her how you feel and then either be with her or move on. Hanging out with x's isn't good for your relationship with her. How would she feel if you met someone else or talked to an x? Put it to her that way. Good luck!0