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I would automatically pay for the first and all dates even if I was a pauper and she was a millionaire. Why? Because that's just the way I am. I couldn't be any other way. I suppose it's my way of giving her something. Just because I want to. That is reason enough.
If she wants to split, I'm fine with that. But I would prefer it to be because she wanted to, instead of feeling obligated to offer. But I would never ask her to, no matter how little money I had or how much she has.
If she wanted to pay for the whole thing, because she wanted to. I would accept it and thank her. It would probably also make me feel really good. Because it's sending the same message that I would be sending her if I paid.
The whole thing is voluntary. If one feels it's necessary, or some kind of obligation, then it loses it's meaning. It only has meaning because it's voluntary. It only has meaning if the person *wants* to do it, freely given.
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