im not trying to compete with anyone all i want is love! i cry at night thinking somethings wrong with me because i haven't found love.
I hate when people tell me it will happen when it happens. Or you find love when your not looking for it it annoys me when people tell me because A. there in relationships so what do they know B. I hate suprises and waiting
And im not ugly... Not at all. Very very insecure but im not ugly person on the outside or inside. im very Curvy yes but not ugly!
I see girls who are bigger than me or "considered less asttractive" by people who are married with kids and i dont get it!! I know its mostly the guys i pick. But honestly i can't help it. I tend to pick guys who seem nice and "Perfect like" charmers and sweet talkers who then turn into assholes and jerks who lie and ignore me. Now I've tried to talk to guys i normally wouldn't find attractive or aren't 'My type" and STILL same results! I dont get it!! yes i have standards but i dont think thier ridiculous ! i just ask you are fairly tall, Funny , sarcastic, romantic, sweet, smart, has a great job or career. i tend to fall for the 'class clown' type. Im almost 24 and in my mind im suppose to have been dating someone two years already or engaged. Im a hopeless romantic and i fall to easy and its a bad and a good thing.
I also have trust issues with guys because of past guys hurting me emotionaly and lieing!
Im 99% sure i will never find the one and ill be a 40 year old dog lady who is single!!
Guys aged 23-27 are still too immature and/or only want hookups. I don't mind hookups but I want something real
And before you ask yes I've tried online dating sites... Those are actually worse.
Most Helpful Guy
"i cry at night thinking somethings wrong with me because i haven't found love. "
No stop! There's nothing wrong with you. Some people just have crap luck when it comes to dating. I'm utterly single right now too so I'm not saying this from a position of someone being in a relationship. Yeah it really really sucks to not have someone to be really affectionate with. I know how you feel. All I can say is just don't give up! If you do end up alone forever (if you keep at it I doubt it will happen) at least you know you gave it your best shot. If you give up you'll always wonder if you would have found your true love if you hadn't given up and wondering "what if" really sucks.1
Most Helpful Girl
stay off dating sites for sure. but you're still 23 and youve got time to meet someone!0