I'm currently still dating my Asian girlfriend from Japan. For about 8 months on and off now she has refused to sleep with me.
After 3 months of her laziness and excuses I claimed to her that I'm going to end it. We love each other so much. She begs to stay with me, I give in because of the love we share. But she only has slept with me 4 maybe only 7 times in 8 months.
Is it okay to cheat on my love but still want to be with her?
Most Helpful Girl
No, If you are unhappy in your relationship, tell your partner. Decide what your next step will be. It may be the end and you split, or the relationship is opened up, or you go for counseling to decide if there is any hope of getting your loving feelings back.
But the lying and the cheating will most certainly seriously damage any chances of a good recovery. And even if you don't get caught, you'll know you're a cheater and a liar. Keeping your self-respect is important, even more important than what other's think of you. You have to live with yourself. You will always be knowing what you did, and how you let yourself, your partner and your vows down.
Most Helpful Guy
No. Cheating is never justified because you're playing with someone's else trust and love. It's unfair to them. In your case, I would tell her about your sexual urges and work something out with her. If she doesn't and you have a much higher libido than her, then you two are not compatible. Intentions of cheating usually mean a person is not satisfied with their relationship. In such a case, it would be best to end the relationship maturely. Hopefully, you two can still be friends if you two want to of course. As if you cheat, you will only create problems and resentment.