I'm trapped with indecision in my relationship, what should I do?
What Girls Said 2
You Are 'Under 18,' which means you are still wet behind the ears in years here, dear, and have this Urge to spread your fling wings and Fly like a free bird to Explore other territories in life because you Realize that you and your Other half, doesn't feel like a Whole with you anymore and Now... Part of me wants to break up right now to get it over with and start moving on.
You both have been these two birds of a feather that have stuck together through thick and thin for '2 years' but no longer counting. You have tried the band aid on the boo boo that didn't work the second time around and Now, realizing from everything you have mentioned Above, from soup to nuts, you want to just Pull it off Fast so it doesn't hurt anyone so much or Even... Sting anymore.
It's best to be this Honest John. You appear, although she may Not, to be more mature and have a good mind set and that even includes the future that could very well go down a bad beaten path and end up a War of the Roses.
You need to sit her down, face to face, and lay Everything on the love line. It is going to kill her but you can't go on Kidding yourself nor her anymore because all you are doing is jumping through hoops with Someone whom you no longer connect with or really Are... In love with.
She may surmise that this Relationship is already 'Dead,' but doesn't want to stir up the coals to ignite it because she is afraid if she should open up a can of smelly worms, it really Will... Go dead.
Good luck. xx1
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