So I've known this girl for almost 10 years and we've been friends for a while. A few years back when I was still sooo naive and unpracticed when it came to relationships I asked her to a school dance previous to knowing that nobody was really asking people. It got weird for a bit but now were even closer than before. This past year we had a lot of classes together and during study hall I'd go to her class and chill with her one on one, make jokes, flirt a little and I started realizing how great of a girl she really is. I fell for her and I'm not sure what to do. We're both seniors this year and lately I've come to realize life is far to short to sweat the small stuff but if I go out on a limb and tell her what's actually on my mind I could lose her forever. I know it might seem cut and dry to some... either go for it and possibly have a nice relationship or dont and stay just friends, but for some reason to me it seems more complicated. Maybe it's just a mental road block... I feel like I should just make the move and if it doesn't work out fix the friendship after but at the same time it might not be fixable. Like I said I've fallen for this girl and I want her as something more than just a friend I just don't know what to do next.
Most Helpful Girl
you need to tell her how you feel.0
Most Helpful Guy
So, the right and smart thing to do here, is to make sure that she's not crushing on anyone, because if she is, you're already in hell.. i mean.. Friendzone,
Second; Make her fall for you, before she finds out you like her, it's a bit psychological but girls think like this, and like the guy usually who they can't have. So if you show her you're a choice, you lost the game. After that, talk to her in private, and tell her how you feel.0