We had a great date and had sex within 3 hours of meeting. Does he think less of me deep down?
Most Helpful Guy
you're a mature woman. At this point I really don't think it matters. You know what you want and you took it.
However I will say this. Woman are caught in real cruel paradox when comes to having sex on the a date and staying in a relationship. She might give it up quick because she genuinely likes him as a person (along with physical attraction) This is one of the very few areas in life where women have my sympathy. Ugly truth is I become less interested in a relationship with a girl if she hooks up with me on the first date. Although I might keep her around for friends with benefits I really have a hard time getting serious with someone who gives it up so fast. At the same time I might try to charm and seduce her into doing it (my testosterone is screaming for it) on the first date... so guys are the assholes in this scenario. If she's equally attracted to me... that puts her in a bind as well. She might want it just as bad.
Best bet is to hint around you are interested in the guy (maybe kiss and cuddle a bit) and maybe do the deed on the 2nd or 3rd date. 2nd date is also a little too soon. 3rd date is the charm if you are interested in getting a relationship in my opinion.2
Most Helpful Girl
Depends on if you're a challenge to him, and which one is a trophy to him: You or the Sex.
To the wrong guy, you might be easy to get. But to the right guy, he might think that you're easy to communicate with, and he would get more comfortable around you.
It's a risk nevertheless, but doesn't hurt if you're absolutely sure. Personally, I'd rather go with 2 or 3 dates before having sex with anyone.2